It seems that in December the crazies set in.  I start to feel dizzy with all that is going on in our family.

This December I am trying to be intentional with how I invest my time and energy.  It doesn't always work out the way that I plan.  But I have found so much more enjoyment in this Christmas season than I have in years.

So how I have I chosen to be intentional?

1. It has started in our home.  This needs to be our safe zone.  We have started a few small but meaningful family traditions that we need to stick to.  Years ago we used to custom order our Christmas tree, a really full tall tree - we would get a personal phone call about our tree each year.  The tree company loved us.  One year as finances were tight we realized that this extravagance was not going to happen that year.  So we took our two daughters and our dog and went for a walk in the bush behind our home in search of the perfect Charlie Brown tree.  We usually find an average size one for our living room and then a couple of small ones for additional spots around our home.  With a smaller tree it takes no time to decorate and a less busy feel to it.  This year we were going to do something a little different and drive to the National Park and cut down a tree with their special fuel break program.  We soon came to realize that our family walk to get a tree was a tradition that we couldn't compromise on.  Our 16 year refused to go anywhere else to get a tree, she even told us even though she may seem grumpy when we do it she really enjoys it.  So you may not know that value that small traditions have to our children.
2. Another element that I have found important is lighting.  With the craziness of the season a peaceful environment is important.  I found great deals on lighting this year and I have placed them in various locations around our home and at night the lights dim and a warm glow fills our home.  I know this has made an impact on me and I believe in the environment in our home.  I am now trying to come up with ideas of what I can do to incorporate this into our home year round.
3. Also in creating a peaceful environment I have been staying positive.  For me this can be a struggle.  I have been listening to Christmas songs - mostly the jazzy station for a more soothing sound.  I have made time to sit with my daughters and watch Christmas movies.  I tend to the be the parents that runs around doing "stuff" and pops in every now and then to catch spinets of the movie.  This year I have been making tea and watching a whole movie!  - more memories of what my daughters will remember. 
4. Gift giving has been greatly reduced from presents to experiences.  What gifts are being given are handmade or local items.
5. Being intentional with my time.  I have made lists of different things that I need to accomplish and I have been actively working on them in an organized manner so that it doesn't take me hours away from our home.  This is something that is working so well that I need to continue this in the new year.  Errand lists, meal prep, family schedules - if organized well doesn't need to steal our time.
6. Creating excitement.  Do you remember when Christmas was so exciting as a child?  -  the anticipation and wonder.  Now with two teen daughters Christmas has changed, and that doesn't need to be a negative thing.  It is our new reality and I am choosing to embrace it.  We are driving to visit family this year and it is a really long drive.  One that we are all not looking forward to, but instead of letting those thoughts make it a horrendous experience I have been coming up with ideas for us to enjoy it and look forward to it.  Looking for the positives can only benefit a situation.

These are a few of the changes I am making this year.  So far they are working - this Christmas feels different.  I hope as a family we can agree at the end of the month that this was a December to remember.

I always feel like I am running ahead.  No matter how hard I strive to catch up and reach the goal I always seem to miss it.  This has me feeling so very tired  and worn out.

The phrase "Nothing changes if nothing changes" continues to run through my mind.  As I have been working through the "My Journey" Journal I have learned that it is my mind that needs to change.  I don't need to work harder or try to achieve more in life (that's a relief!)  Most of the goals that I have set for my life are unrealistic goals that I will never attain.  This mindset was stopping me from enjoying my everyday life.   Life is too short, I don't have any more time to waste.

My everyday life is my legacy.  What are those closest to me going to remember about me?  It's not the big accomplishments - it's the little things that I do for my family, it's the way that I treat those around me with respect and encouraging words.  It's the time I commit to praying with our daughters each night and sharing about their day.  It's the example that I set as I open my Bible to study and invite my family into that space to learn together.  It's sitting in the same room with my daughter drinking tea and reading a book.  

It is starting my day with prayer, asking that the Lord's will be done and seeking His will alone.

Join me this week to seek His will in our lives.  I'll warn you that it is easier said than done.  For me it is a constant battle in my mind to seek His will and not my own.  As I have been journaling about this over the past few weeks, I have discovered that I am living more intentionally and finding joy in my everyday life.  The time spent with my family has more purpose, opportunities that I never expected are presenting themselves to me and I feel a connectedness with the Lord that I have been longing for.

If you are joining me in this, give this post a "like" below.  I would be honored to pray with you and for you, just leave a comment or send me a private message and let me know.  We can do this together, life is never a journey that we have to travel alone.

Each morning as we put our feet on the floor we have a day full of opportunites ahead of us.  Make them count!

Here is a list of ways that you can make the best of our life!  Enjoy every day!

I love questions that make me think! 

This one really made me think.  I posed the question to my husband and he is even more analytical than I am (I know hard to believe!) and he replied, “If you are making a resolution for something, it would be something that is important to you so why would you make any resolution that you wouldn’t keep.” 

That comment made me re-visit every resolution that I have ever made throughout my entire life.  How serious was I about the promises I made to myself at the turn of each new year?  What example am I setting to our daughters as they see me start and generally not finish things that are really important.  I know that this is a pattern that I have to stop.  

What's my one resolution?
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Delving into the scriptures ​and intentional study is mandatory in these times that we are currently living.  To be grounded in truth is integral to stand firm in our faith.  I want to be so full of God's words that I am able to stand up against anything that may come my way.  
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So how would you answer that question?  What's your one resolution?  Grab your journal, a cup of tea and spend a few moments with it.  Want support with your resolution?  Write it in the comments below.

I have been studying for a lot of exciting projects that are going to be happening in the new year.  Psalm 139 is an important chapter that we study.  So I thought I would start there.  I didn’t get very far when Psalm 139:3 stopped me in my tracks.