It seems that in December the crazies set in. I start to feel dizzy with all that is going on in our family.
This December I am trying to be intentional with how I invest my time and energy. It doesn't always work out the way that I plan. But I have found so much more enjoyment in this Christmas season than I have in years.
So how I have I chosen to be intentional?
I always feel like I am running ahead. No matter how hard I strive to catch up and reach the goal I always seem to miss it. This has me feeling so very tired and worn out.
The phrase "Nothing changes if nothing changes" continues to run through my mind. As I have been working through the "My Journey" Journal I have learned that it is my mind that needs to change. I don't need to work harder or try to achieve more in life (that's a relief!) Most of the goals that I have set for my life are unrealistic goals that I will never attain. This mindset was stopping me from enjoying my everyday life. Life is too short, I don't have any more time to waste.
My everyday life is my legacy. What are those closest to me going to remember about me? It's not the big accomplishments - it's the little things that I do for my family, it's the way that I treat those around me with respect and encouraging words. It's the time I commit to praying with our daughters each night and sharing about their day. It's the example that I set as I open my Bible to study and invite my family into that space to learn together. It's sitting in the same room with my daughter drinking tea and reading a book.
It is starting my day with prayer, asking that the Lord's will be done and seeking His will alone.
Join me this week to seek His will in our lives. I'll warn you that it is easier said than done. For me it is a constant battle in my mind to seek His will and not my own. As I have been journaling about this over the past few weeks, I have discovered that I am living more intentionally and finding joy in my everyday life. The time spent with my family has more purpose, opportunities that I never expected are presenting themselves to me and I feel a connectedness with the Lord that I have been longing for.
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Each morning as we put our feet on the floor we have a day full of opportunites ahead of us. Make them count!
Here is a list of ways that you can make the best of our life! Enjoy every day!
I love questions that make me think!
This one really made me think. I posed the question to my husband and he is even more analytical than I am (I know hard to believe!) and he replied, “If you are making a resolution for something, it would be something that is important to you so why would you make any resolution that you wouldn’t keep.”
That comment made me re-visit every resolution that I have ever made throughout my entire life. How serious was I about the promises I made to myself at the turn of each new year? What example am I setting to our daughters as they see me start and generally not finish things that are really important. I know that this is a pattern that I have to stop.
What's my one resolution?
Delving into the scriptures and intentional study is mandatory in these times that we are currently living. To be grounded in truth is integral to stand firm in our faith. I want to be so full of God's words that I am able to stand up against anything that may come my way.
So how would you answer that question? What's your one resolution? Grab your journal, a cup of tea and spend a few moments with it. Want support with your resolution? Write it in the comments below.
I have been studying for a lot of exciting projects that are going to be happening in the new year. Psalm 139 is an important chapter that we study. So I thought I would start there. I didn’t get very far when Psalm 139:3 stopped me in my tracks.
You chart the path ahead of me and tell me where to stop and rest. Every moment you know where I am.
I always knew about the “path” that I am continually trying to locate and stay on. But telling me where to stop and rest was something I don’t ever remember reading or learning before.
If I had to pin point my location on the path I would say that I am at a resting place. I have tried fighting against this rest stop. I can see the road ahead of me and I want to keep moving and reach for the goals that God has me striving for.
The more I fight the harder God tried to hold me in the resting place. Why would I want to fight rest?
Looking back on the last two years I am asking myself a lot of questions. Currently I am choosing to enjoy the rest. I now know that this is a time of “being still” and taking time to study and prepare for what God has next. I am enjoying it and treasuring this time that I get to spend with my Lord. I am learning and growing tremendously - I have learned to be thankful for this time.
The question arises again. Why did I fight this? Why did it have to come to the point of health issues for me to give in and give myself over to a period of rest.
As a society we are driven to succeed. A period of rest could look like laziness and lack of dedication to the calling that God has placed on your life. I was enjoying what I was doing for God, why would I want to stop? I was helping people-- encouraging people to live their lives with and on purpose. I won a National award for my book-- why would I want to stop when everyone was asking when my next book is coming out?
Now that I have chosen to stop and rest I have a clearer vision of what God has in store. It is bigger and greater than anything that I was striving for when I was fighting the rest, and something I would have never seen if I didn’t have this time of rest.
Every moment You know where I am and why I am there - may I continue to be obedient and trust that you know the path better than I may think I do.
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